unspoken argument.

i remember my colleague saying, "ang big deal sa'yo, minsan hindi big deal sa'kin."

it's his line for his girlfriend. and i know that's true for everyone else. that's where misunderstanding, arguments, cold treatment and small fights root from.

what we may consider small-unnecessary-insignificant-petty things may mean A LOT to the other person.

like how an end-of-day message means to me (lengthy or short, i don't mind).

we don't really expect a nonstop exchange of dm's and pm's and whatnot from each other throughout the day, of course. we both have our schedules to follow, errands to attend to, and life to live.

so how hard it is to send a simple message saying you're home safe and all. or if you happen to be too tired, no sugarcoating, just a lame "goodnight" will do.

and yes, since you're dealing with this crazy thing called "thesis," and a looming cheerdance competition on the side, i choose not to tell you this directly. i don't want a demanding girlfriend be added on your plate.


but if by any chance you'll come
across this, don't take this personally.

because it's true, "ang big deal sa'kin, hindi big deal sa'yo," and vice versa.